And they’re capable of giving very generously at those times - the “love bombing” moments when they need to have their narcissistic air supply refilled. Narcissists will give a nice gift if they think the object of their love will decide to turn around and come back home. That is, unless the organization will include their name on some sort of plaque - and as a result will up their status in their town or place of business. So “giving” is not on their list of “things to do.” Their checkbook registers will not include the names of charitable organizations. But a narcissist is incapable of understanding the concept of a “thoughtful gesture.” They only have one objective in life, and that is to GET stuff from other people. That question is, “What’s in it for me?” You see, a normal person gives a gift because they’re doing it out of the goodness of their heart. And first, they must ask themselves a very important question. Oh, narcissists do indeed give gifts! But they only give gifts once they’ve given it a lot of thought.
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